If you’re available via a wide variety of electronic devices then you short circuit her building up more feelings for you.

Let’s put it another way – I call this my Thanksgiving analogy.

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That’s why a majority of women recently reported in a national survey that they wouldn’t marry the same guy again.

But since you didn’t have my book, what’s happened to you now is predictable.

Thanksgiving dinner for many people is highly anticipated – all the food, the fun, the people you haven’t seen for awhile are all things that make it a great day – but of course, mainly it’s the food.

When you smell that dinner cooking with all the fixings and desserts you can’t wait – it’s been so long since you had a feast like that and it’s going to be a lot of fun.

Think about this – what is it that you can possibly compliment her on that will allow you to either not come off as a phony or completely bore her?

Let’s tackle the “bore her” part first – you bore her when you compliment her looks – if she’s pretty then she’s been told since her teenage years the same thing over and over and over and over again – she gets that she’s pretty – because she’s been told hundreds – if not thousands of times.

In this instance you’re essentially the woman because the sales folks in the store are approaching you like you would approach ladies – in either instance a “no” can be dropped on the pursuer – the dreaded REJECTION CARD.

When you come into a store, do you like the salesperson to be up in your grill the minute you walk in giving you a high pressure pitch, especially if you’ve let them know “you’re just looking.” Flip that around into your dating life and you’ll begin to see the point I’m trying to get across.

You’ll be way ahead of the game if you move the 3 things below into the NEVER DO THIS column when going out with women.